Ever wonder why you sometimes don’t like the people you love? Why do some disagreements seem impossible to resolve? Why certain small problems are so upsetting? And what can you do about it? 

Outsmarting Yourself provides realistic, psychologically sound, and Christ-centered tools for becoming a joyful, life-giving person with thriving relationships. Dr. Karl Lehman combines evidence from scientific research, carefully documented case studies, and gripping personal stories to convince you of the reality of “invisible” memory and your Verbal Logical Explainer (VLE), and then help you maximize their benefits while minimizing the havoc they can cause. 

Dr. Lehman teaches you how to leverage the things you can choose to do something about in order to overcome the problems you can’t choose to change.